Today I learned that, although I stay to myself, minding my own business as I lick my wounds, (self-inflicted as well as wounds inflicted by others) I am STILL the object of unsubstantiated rumors. I'm tired this petty mess. I am quiet and as I said, keep to myself, but remember, still waters run deep.
If you are reading this and you are one of those low-lifes who need to get a life, understand your mindset as a rumor starter.
The type of people who start rumors are, for the most part, are
1. Insecure about themselves,
2. Trying to divert attention from their own mess by focusing people's attention on someone else; and are
3. Evil, diabolical and malicious
If you are one of those people who call yourself talking about me, understand this...YOU DON'T KNOW ME. You may think you know me because you may be a relative or friend of a relative, or so-called, self proclaimed friend of mine, or past fling or whatever, but you have no idea who I am. You don't know the old me or the new me. Very few people really know me, I mean maybe 3 people really know me for real and not one of them are a relative or family member.
For those of you who feed on rumors, carrying them like a dog carries a bone, understand that rumors are:
1. Outright, intentional lies.
2. A nugget of truth misunderstood or misrepresented to the point of falsity,
3. Half-truths purposely exaggerated,
4. Opinions represented as facts,
5. Unverified statements
If you are a weak minded rumor starter or a carrier, please stop it because in the long run, you are only hurting yourself. Life is a circle in which everything you do comes back to you. Be very careful about who you talk about and what you say.
If I had the type of character it takes to start rumors, best believe that I would have my information verified and backed up by numerous sources. And believe me, I could start a whole lot of conversation about a whole lot of people and all information would be based on verified facts and statements, but I don't have the need or desire to talk about or share other people's dirty laundry - I am way above that type of pettiness. The only motivation I would have to waste my time and energy on such nonsense would be to make some money from it.